Parents: 10 Ways to Handle your Child’s Teacher

20160902_144310Kids aren’t the only ones headed back to school. Teachers are gearing up for a new school year too. But for many of my teacher-friends, they never did gear down. If they weren’t teaching summer school or reading camps, they have been in the classroom organizing and cleaning. Why? It’s not because they are receiving a paycheck (because they are not making extra money by working in their classrooms over the summer), it’s because they want everything to be good—not perfect, but right and wonderful for their students. The following TEN suggestions are ways that you can help your child’s teacher adjust to her new students (your child in particular) and have a happy new school year! (Pictures are some of my favorite teachers that I have pictures of!)

  1. Encourage your child’s teacher. Everyone—EVERYONE—needs a bit of encouragement. Just because the teacher is someone in authority doesn’t mean he/she is automatically an enemy. When things are right, tell your teacher about it. Encouragement and praise go a long way. Consider your work: when your boss tells you that you did a good job in a particular area, you feel good and want to strive to do better. When your husband compliments you on how beautiful the house looks, you feel good. Teachers are the same way. When you notice how hard they worked, and give them a word of appreciation or affirmation, they are inspired to continue to do their best.
  2. Do not talk negatively about your teacher—to other people, to other parents, and especially your children. Gossip just hurts, no matter who it is.
  3. If there is a problem with the teacher or a particular situation, go straight to him/her to resolve it. Believe it or not, the teacher wants the problem resolved as much as you do. Everyone’s life is better when it’s free of conflict. But the reality is that conflict often occurs where more than one person exists—whether its friendships, marriages, work environment, or church group. The main thing is to work it out so everyone benefits.
  4. Presume the best of your teacher. There are always two sides to any story. Get the facts before you react.
  5. Trust your teacher. He/she has been trained to deliver a quality education to all students. And you are the expert on the personal needs and learning styles of your child. Together you make a DYNAMIC TEAM. Make time to share your knowledge and listen to the teacher’s knowledge as well. This will help facilitate the best education your child can receive.
  6. Parents aren’t perfect—and neither are teachers. Forgive them when they make a mistake. Like you, they come to work with all of their own “adult stuff.” And like you they are concerned about their own children or problems within their family. Like you they can sometimes feel overwhelmed. Treat them the way you want to be treated.
  7. God can use anyone in any situation. If things are tough, find the good lesson in it.
  8. Model for your child how to treat a teacher with respect.
  9. Different personalities make us beautiful! Just because you are an enthusiastic extrovert and your child’s teacher is a quieter-introvert-type, (or vice versa) doesn’t mean he/she doesn’t like you when he/she doesn’t respond in the way you think he/she should. Keep it real people—relax!
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Seldom is something perfect all of the time. But following these simple, respectful guidelines sure can make things feel a little easier in an already stressed out world. What suggestions do you have?

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Debbie has been a teacher for more than 35 years and a parent for 28 years. Her children attended both private and public schools.

Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

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When You Need God’s Protection: A Reflection on Psalm 3

sword-1492885_960_720Last year I saw the movie “Risen.” In one point of the movie every man had shields in front of their bodies—then they moved them to above their heads, and it was like an overhead wall covering the entire army. Amazingly, the army in the back, used those shields to run up to the front line. Yes! They ran on top of the shields that were on top of the men’s heads. It was very cool seeing the many ways the shield is used.

Now, with that visual, reflect on this: God is our shield in emotional and spiritual battles. Verse three says, “He lifts my head.” When we are disappointed, discouraged, or sad, we can picture God lifting our heads. Imagine Him smiling as He does this.  He loves us so dearly. He is so compassionate and full of mercy. His smile says He accepts us as we are.

There is great hope when we cry to God. He hears our every whimper and sees every tear. Jeremiah 33:3 tells us, Call to Me and I will answer you and show you great and mighty things you do not know. Why don’t we do this more often? Why do we run to other people first? Why do we choose to privately grieve for days without going to God?

Today we can be assured that God is our protection, He hears us when we cry, and He answers. Today, we can make David’s prayer our prayer. Surrender the sin of independence, and humbly run to God. God says He will “lift our heads.”

David’s prayer starts out in conflict, then goes into confidence, then celebration. This is a great model for us because we all experience conflict at some time or another. In confidence take your conflicts to God. He will help you and restore you. Now that is cause for celebration!

  • What or who is coming against you?
  • In what ways do you need God to put His shield around you?
  • Is your head bowed low? Tell God about your sadness and ask Him to lift your head.
  • Read and reflect on Psalm 3

Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

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Your Strong Roots~A Reflection of Psalm 1

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The difference is real. The woman who walks with God is the recipient of His blessings. She is like a tree whose roots are firmly established and stretch to the river to receive their nourishment. She entwines her roots around the Word of God and ponders His precious words, for she knows they are her life. And she delights in them! His Word is a powerful source of spiritual energy and she draws her strength from these Living Waters. Although her roots are hidden, they are her most important part.

When the storms of life come she will not be whisked away, for her strong root system holds fast. When the drought season descends upon her, she will not wither. Pruning her limbs may cause discomfort but this process enables her to produce sweet-smelling, beautiful fruit in season (Galatians 5:22-23). She is able to achieve that which is worthwhile.

STRONG roots treeJeremiah 17:7-8 tells us, Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord and whose trust is the Lord. For he will be like a tree planted by the water, that extends its roots by a stream and will not fear when the heat comes; but it’s leaves will be green, and it will not be anxious in a year of drought nor cease to yield fruit.

 

tree rootsThe ungodly woman is also like a tree. But her roots do not go deep or stretch to the river for nourishment. When the winds rage she is blown away and devastated. She withers in the heat, unable to bear fruit. She flounders. She is unstable in her ways and lives aimlessly without direction.

  • Do you need spiritual refreshment today? Go to God and tell Him all about it.
  • Are you running with the ungodly? Turn around and get a new start.
  • Get connected with a godly woman and let her help you plant strong roots.

Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

 

 

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A Strong Math Foundation: Ages 3-5

IMG_2868Summer is here! Maybe your preschooler is on his/her way to kindergarten in August. Or perhaps your have a rising first grader who could use a review. Here’s something you can do with your kiddos to help them be prepared for the math they will do.

Before children can do basic addition and subtraction, they need to conceptually understand what makes a group. This basic mathematical skill is called sorting. But it’s often overlooked as we eagerly jump right into counting… and then adding and subtracting. Not fully understanding a concept can create problems when mathematical concepts become more complicated. You may have experienced this yourself- you learned facts and were able to memorize them, so you did well in math…until middle school.

So while you are waiting for your child to go to pre-school, kindergarten, or even first grade, here is a fun activity you can do at home. There are no workbooks or flashcards involved. YAY! Just fun and tasty…and nearly free. That’s always good.

IMG_2856You will need some things to sort. You can use: fruit loops, gummy bears, jelly beans. ANYTHING.IMG_2854

COLOR is good for beginning sorters.

I spray painted medal baby food jar lids to sort.

IMG_2859You may want to have a container to sort your colors into like muffin tins. Say to your child, “Put these fruit loops into groups that are the same.” After they have sorted them by color, say, “You made five different groups.”

Sorting by Color With Gummy Bears

You can even show this by making circles around the groups. Once children are able to easily sort by color, you can sort by something a little more difficult: shape-circles, squares, and triangles.IMG_2853

The whole time you are sorting you emphasize GROUP.

ADDITION is putting groups together. This group plus this group makes this group.

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IMG_2863SUBTRACTION is separating groups. “I have 5 gummy bears. I share 1 with you. Now I have 4.” 

Keep skills real…concrete…something they can touch. Worksheets and flashcards require visualization which students at this age are usually not ready for. (The transition from concrete/real objects to abstract/no objects occurs some where between 5-7 so some children will be ready to add/subtract in “their head.”)

International Delight Coffee Cans Painted Black. Numbers Written with White-Out

Counting will be a natural outcome when your child makes a group. “One, two, three, four, five. There are FIVE in this group.” The next gradual step is to match the group with the symbol on the can. I made this activity for FREE. I spray painted my INTERNATIONAL DELIGHT coffee cans with black spray paint. Then I painted the symbol/number with WHITE OUT. Sorting, counting, matching the symbol to the group is the natural process.

  Have fun this summer!

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Debbie taught math foundations and early literacy for children ages birth-eight for the past thirty-five years. 

Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

 

 

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Letting Go-Living Life Together:Inspiration #6

20170607_152855Letting go of the past isn’t always easy. For most though, the decision to “let go” catapults us into a new beginning, either physically or emotionally.

Today I symbolically let go of a 35 year teaching career by handing over my teaching materials to some of my favorite teachers. I had the best career and I loved teaching—first, elementary school, and then later becoming a college instructor, training students to become the best teachers. I loved being influential in helping my students succeed… all of them—from kindergarten to college. But that part of my life is over now. I look forward to the new ways that I can be impactful and be used by God.

Do you need to let go? Maybe it’s a painful memory that holds you at bay, keeping you from becoming all that God has prepared for you. Perhaps it’s shame or guilt that make you feel “less than.” Maybe you think God can’t use you or worse, doesn’t want to use you. It’s just not true. Or maybe you’re just like me—your past was wonderful but the time has come to move on and serve in another capacity.

God tells us, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.”
Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV)

Then there’s more good news in Philippians 3:13-14, Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

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Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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A Summer Writing Project your PreK-8 Children Will Love!

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Schools out for summer and the kids are home. I can attest to the validity of studies suggesting that students can digress academically over the summer. It can take up to six weeks of review just to put them back at the level they were prior to summer break. What would help them stay at and even exceed their current level in reading and writing?

Not a workbook or worksheets.

Not flashcards.

These can be boring, not on the appropriate interest level for the child, and meaningless. Bring some EXCITEMENT into a reading & writing project that is inexpensive, fun to do and a keepsake too!

While having fun and creating a memory, your children will practice:

  • Spelling
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  • Grammar
  • Punctuation
  • Reading Comprehension
  • Phonics
  • Context clues
  • Handwriting

In addition, he/she will become confident in his/her abilities and self-esteem will be strengthened. Confidence in oneself is motivation for learning in all areas.

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1. Purchase a spiral notebook, three-prong folder with loose leaf paper or plain typing paper, or a journal from the a dollar store.

2. You will need a camera. (Digital or single use camera)

3. Using markers, title the journal or notebook, My Summer Time Fun (or something else

you like)

4. Each day your child writes about something he/she did or experienced. Someone can take a picture of them doing it or they can illustrate a picture themselves.It can be very simple:

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“Today I climbed a tree.”

“I went to Home Depot with Dad to buy paint.”

“We had a picnic at the lake.”

Dictation- For a Non-Reader/Writer

Pre-k children can tell you about their picture and you can write down what he/she

says (dictation).

K-1 children shouldn’t worry about perfect spelling. “Sounding out words” is still

using phonics, which is necessary. But with so many silent letters or letters that “break the rules,” children could become frustrated. The point is to ENJOY the process of writing and to write meaningful content. The more reading and writing your child does,

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they will see the correct spellings. Older children can be expected to write more.

5. Take the journal on vacation. Take pictures, cut them out and glue them down and write about what’s happening. You can use the pictures from postcards and paper menus too.

6. Provide your children with lots of experiences so they have something to write about. Again, these are as simple as “We planted flowers.” or “I helped mommy make a cake.”

8. You can also write your own cards                                                                                                   and letters for Grandparents.

9. Children are eager to read back to you what they’ve written.

A Sixth Grader's Journal Entry

10. Finally, what a wonderful keepsake for everybody! Worksheets usually get thrown away but a journal like this while be saved for the next generation to read about what “their Grandpa did when he was six.”

Enjoy this summer and write on!

Debbie was a former K-3 teacher for 9 years and a college instructor for 21 years where she taught future teachers successful reading and writing strategies.

Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

 

 

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Are you Waiting? Living Life Together: Inspiration # 5

hand-1819357_1920 - CopyThe storm passed, taking with it sheets of rain and fierce winds, resulting in a cloudless, perfect sky. It was during this storm that I waited for my daughter to meet up with us. After a three hour drive she safely arrived to join us at the beach. But the three hours I waited felt like THREE-HUNDRED.

Are you waiting? Are you waiting for God to show up and do a miracle? Are you waiting for the answers to the questions you have been asking? Are you waiting for specific direction before you make a move?  How would you complete this:

I am waiting for_________________________________.

Waiting for God’s answer can feel like an eternity

But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” Isaiah 40:31 (ESV)

If you’re weary, tell God about it. If you feel like giving up, tell God about it. He will renew your strength. SHINE ON!

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Debbie is a published author, national speaker and workshop presenter, and a partner with the Polished Conference Ministries L.L.C. She facilitates an online Bible study page on Facebook, teaches Bible study in her church, and blogs at Shining Together! Debbie has written Shine! Radiating the Love of God, a Bible study designed exclusively for young women ages 13-18. Additionally, she has articles in the Divine Moments series, and is a monthly contributor to Refined Magazine. All books are available at grace-publishing.com. She would love to speak at your next women’s event, teen event, or at the college where she brings an inspirational message to teachers in training called, “A Christian Perspective for an Inspirational Classroom.” Debbie is married and has three adult children. She travels from Asheville, NC. Visit her website at www.debbiepresnell.com, email her at: debpres@yahoo.com, or visit her page on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineEveryDayNC.

 

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